Carl Parsons was one of five notable volunteers honored at this year’s Community Heroes award ceremony, hosted in Farmington by the New Mexico Coalition Against Domestic Violence. Parsons was nominated by Help End Abuse for Life (HEAL). The Community Heroes award is aimed at recognizing individuals and groups who have shown support above and beyond the call of duty at shelters across the state.
Parsons is a local plumber who has worked extensively with the Nest domestic violence shelter. As someone always willing to lend a helping hand, he has become the go-to plumber for the shelter and has, through his years of service, responded to crisis calls at all times of the day and night.
He also acts as an Elder at Gateway Church of Christ and teaches marriage classes. “I’ll preach any time. I’ll even provide the soapbox,” Parsons joked.
He chose to work with the Nest because it was a way to support a cause he believes in. “I have a heart for the Nest because it deals with families – broken families in tough situations. I think family issues are one of the biggest problems we face today. The Nest catches them, protects them and helps them see that what they are going through is unacceptable. The Nest teaches them other ways to live and that’s important because the cycle will repeat, or get worse, if not.”
Parsons’ commitment to the Nest is important because it illustrates a support for survivors and the mission of the shelter: to end violence and oppression in Lincoln County. In helping the shelter, he helps survivors recognize that they are living in a supportive community, which is important in ending the isolation many have suffered.
“The Nest provides a tremendous service to our community that I can’t provide on my own,” Parsons said, “and they are good at the work they do. It’s a great service to people in need. I can fix a furnace, or a toilet, and help support that in my own way.”
“Mr. Parsons is someone who is here whenever we are in need,” said Terry Thompson, Shelter Manager at The Nest. “He has never said no. He just shows up. He is so helpful. I don’t know what we would do without him and his willingness to help. He’s a wonderful, excellent man and is truly our community hero here at The Nest.”
Parsons said he wants to be encouraging to other potential volunteers who are interested in working with HEAL and The Nest. “You don’t have to be perfect. Regardless of your talent, skill, vocation or job, you can take a moment to help someone in need, and I believe that’s how we show love to others. You can help in your own way.”
Pictured is local plumber Carl Parsons, recipient of the 2013 Community Heroes award.
